Choosing a right TOYs

As a parent, you want the best for your child, and you want to make sure that your child has access to good quality toys. Choosing toys should be a simple affair, but often times, it isn't. Walk into any toy store, and a million products are calling to you. They all claim to be "educational," and capable of developing your child's brain. Advertising can subtly sway your choices too.

Here are some guidelines on how to choose toys for your toddler.

• Buy toys that grow with your child. To find out which toys are able to last the test of time because they offer endless fascination, you only need to look at classic toys that have been staples in toy stores. Example: Train sets, blocks, dress-up costumes, puzzles.

• Buy open-ended toys. Toys that can be played in a variety of ways will add to its longevity, as your child will be able to discover new ways of interacting with the toy.

• Toys that encourage problem solving or spark imagination are better than toys that are merely entertaining. Flashing lights, and repetitive movements which require no skill or logic from the child may seem attractive at first, especially when your child shows interest in them, but lack depth.

• Make sure they are age appropriate. Age guidelines printed on the box are there for a reason. Toy companies spend lots of research dollars on testing. If you buy a toy that is targeted at an age group beyond your child's age (even if deemed safe by you), don't be surprised if he's not interested in it, or is frustrated by it, which can discourage future attempts.

• Variety is the spice of life. Ensure a spread of toys that cover all senses and skill sets: social skills, imaginative play, art, fine and gross motor skills, literacy, spatial skills, and so on. At this age, exposure to a wide variety of toys will help you discern later what areas he needs more encouragement in.

• Consider your values, and how they may guide your selection. For example, some parents do not want any weapons for toys. Other parents are particular about selecting gender specific toys.

• Safety first. Make sure art and craft materials are non-toxic. Many toys are labelled as unsuitable for three year olds and under because of the potential that they might put small parts in their mouth. Check for loose parts or parts that can be easily broken. Be aware of product recalls by companies.

What about toys that were bought by friends and family as gifts but not necessarily good toys by your standards? It's sometimes hard to reject those gifts because you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, and you also want to teach your children how to be grateful recipients of gifts. When those gifts come your toddler's way, vet them for safety and age appropriateness, and if they go against any of your values. Aside from these, it's okay to let these toys through the gates occasionally.

By Lianne Ong for Yahoo! Southeast Asia